What is the Difference Between a Clitoral and a G-Spot Orgasm?

What Is an Orgasm?

Orgasms are a series of muscle contractions in the pelvic muscles or penis, accompanied by a rush of endorphins and other feel-good neurotransmitters. Ejaculation might happen, but it’s not always the case!

Orgasms are unique for every individual. They vary in intensity, duration, sensation, and emotional experience. Scientifically speaking, an orgasm for people with vulvas is the release of all the muscles activated during sex. This is why it feels like a huge, satisfying wave of relief—not just through the vagina but throughout the entire body.

 

What Does an Orgasm Feel Like?

For many, an orgasm feels like a full-body experience of pleasure. As someone approaches an orgasm, it often feels like climbing to the peak of a hill you’re eager to cross—possibly even a little overwhelming. Once you reach the peak, your vision might temporarily blur or go black, your body may tremble, and all you can think about is how good it feels.

After the climax, many people don’t feel like continuing. In fact, continued stimulation might feel overstimulating or uncomfortable. Instead, you feel completely relaxed and ready to sleep—this is your body’s response to the chemical substances released during and after orgasm.

Clitoral Orgasm vs. G-Spot Orgasm

Now, let’s delve into the two main types of orgasms and how to achieve them: clitoral orgasms and vaginal/G-spot orgasms.

A clitoral orgasm is achieved through external stimulation of the clitoris, whether penetration occurs or not. A vaginal/G-spot orgasm, on the other hand, results solely from penetration. So, are they two completely different things? Not really—it all depends on which part of the clitoris is being stimulated.

The clitoris is much larger than most people think. In fact, all penises start as clitorises in the womb before they develop, meaning there are far more erogenous zones than just the small tip visible at the top. The clitoris is shaped like an upside-down V with a cap at its pointed tip and extends well beyond the vaginal opening. In fact, only a fraction of the clitoris is visible, with the rest responsible for penetration orgasms.

Have you heard of the famous G-spot? It’s actually part of your clitoris! The clitoris and G-spot are part of the same tissue and organ—the G-spot is essentially the back end of the clitoris.

So, both orgasms are technically clitoral orgasms; the difference lies in which part of the clitoris is being stimulated. Although they’re part of the same system, they feel completely different to those who experience them—and the stimulation techniques also differ.

 

How to Achieve an Orgasm

Clitoral orgasms are the most common for people with vulvas, so let’s start there.

First, remember that the goal of an orgasm is to enjoy the journey—from arousal to that explosive finale. The goal isn’t just to reach the orgasm and be done with it. Secondly, find your clitoris. It’s located just below your pubic mound, where your vagina meets the labia. It has a small cap you may or may not notice. The clitoris is small and varies in size.

Once you’ve located your clitoris, explore what feels best for you. Some prefer to gently rub the area with two fingers so that the clitoris isn’t directly stimulated, while others enjoy more direct stimulation. Try gentle, circular motions, as they’re often the most natural. The speed and pressure are entirely up to you, so experiment!

If things start to feel dry, you can use the “tap-and-rub method” to quickly rub with your fingers to produce more natural lubrication. Alternatively, you can use a water-based lubricant.

Consistent stimulation is key to achieving a clitoral orgasm, so continue as long as it feels good. Don’t forget to explore other areas as needed. Everyone is different, and the time it takes to reach orgasm varies, so relax and enjoy the ride!

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G-Spot Orgasms

Now for the exciting part! Start by going to the bathroom, as the G-spot is near the bladder, and having an empty bladder generally makes the experience more comfortable. No, you won’t pee yourself—but it’ll help you focus on the sensations building up.

Get comfortable and get yourself in the mood, whatever that means for you. Once you’re feeling aroused and ready, it’s time to locate your G-spot. It’s about 5 cm inside, along the front wall of your vaginal canal. When inserting your fingers, curve them upward. The G-spot feels slightly rougher than the rest of the vagina, so you’ll notice it by its texture. Maintain the curve of your fingers and make a “come-hither” motion.

At first, it might feel a little strange or unfamiliar—but in a good way. You can use body-safe toys or your fingers to further stimulate the area and build arousal until you reach orgasm. Remember, your body will take as much time as it needs, so don’t stress.

If your fingers get tired, we offer a variety of G-spot vibrators that can help bring you closer to your next explosive orgasm. Many models stimulate both the G-spot and clitoris, so you don’t have to choose one over the other!

Be patient with yourself, discover what feels good, and have fun! Everyone can achieve an orgasm—you just need to know how.